"Week of Azerbaijan" in Armenia and "Week of Armenia" in Azerbaijan

Several days ago we all knew that the Week of Azerbaijan will held in Armenia (some meetings of Non-governmental organizations, cultural dialog). Such events are know in the process of so-called "national diplomacy".
Today, Piter Semnebi (EU special representative in the South Caucas) proposed to held similar meeting in Azerbaijan. Weeks of Armenia in Azerbaijan!
I'm really sometime wonder about people! Let's imagine the situation: you and your neighbour pick a quarell. Your flat is bigger than neighbour's, and you have more members of your family than your neighbour. The result of the quarell with your neighbour - you lost one your room, one of your 5 brother was killed, two sister were ravished and your little infant died in tortune.
Then your friends propose to invite you to the flat of your neighbour and to discuss the problems in his family - his work and so on... Then your friends propose to have such meeting in your flat...
Wow! Now multiplate the death of man in 20, women 20, and chidren 10. Now you will see the parallel with this war.
How can a man invite his enemy to his house? Enemy, which killed his infants, ravished your wife, sisterm daughter? HOW?

Elvin